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Plural Marriage... My Story Thus Far
- Thread starter Maverick
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Yw. It has been a long road and we are all 3 still learning. Trust me I still get jealous and so does she. But we have actually have become the best of friends. And we both talk to each other when we feel that way. Our husband says he can fix things if it is between me and him and he can fix things between them two. But.he cant.fix if we have problems between us. So we try very hard not.to let that happen or get out of control. Our family dont know but our children do. Mine have accepted her as a 2nd mom. Her daughter accepts us but her sons dont. But if Hashem does this and leads someone to the both of you and.your both in an agreement. Then things will work. Cause to have a 2nd or 3rd wife come into your home the.1st wife will feel threatened. Even though we know it is not true it is the nature of thimgs. If one does come in make sure ur wife is included in things that is not just the 2 of you. Still have separate night out. And then date nights together. That is what we do.
Have you and your wife met any other BF friends in person? There might be a regional poly meetup in your area that you can find and explore that avenue.
Great idea. However I need my wife to warm up to the idea(saying that really does not sit well with me!), before doing something like that. The best idea would be for this to all work out as according to my idea and then show up as a clan.
That can be hard, because anything remotely related to poly can be met with visceral reactions, but just having a female friend in her ear, who is not vehemently opposed to poly, will probably never happen by accident, and she may just be telling herself that you are no longer interested in that.